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Dear Donnie-

My boyfriend and I have been together now for about 4 months. Recently he has started to tell me "I love you". Usually it's when we're together, or at the end of a date. The problem is that I just don't feel that way about him yet, and don't believe in saying it if you don't feel it. The last time he said it (on Saturday night), I replied with "thank you"....and I felt horrible. I could see in his eyes that he was hurt that I wasn't saying it back. What do I do? I really feel this relationship is going somewhere, but don't want to bring it to a screeching halt with an "I just don't love you yet"