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Dear Donnie,

   I have been dating this girl for a few weeks, and things are going well. I hadn't really considered going all out for Valentine's day because the relationship was so new, but she dropped a pretty big hint about going out that night. I like this girl a lot, but I think that day is reserved for more advanced relationships and we aren't there yet. I don't mean to sound cheap, but I also don't want to drop money on an expensive dinner and gift for a woman I barely know.How do I let her down easy?