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A few months ago a friend of mine returned a dress that she borrowed completely unwashed. It was a dress that required dry cleaning and I was so mad that she could be so rude. She didn't even thank me!  I wanted to say something to her so bad, but she is the type of person who would make it a relationship- ender, so I let it go. Guess who wants to borrow it AGAIN?  She sent me a text asking if she can "swing by and grab it". I ignored it, and she sent me the same text again last night. What should I say? There is no way she's getting her hands on it again, but she knows it doesn't fit me at the moment, so I don't know how to blow her off.