Love is in the air this week with Valentine’s Day on Friday, but new research suggests that could all change instantly if you come on too strong. The romantic holiday can put a lot of pressure on those in the early stages of a relationship, so some try to dodge it all together.
According to a new survey of 2-thousand adults, 56% of those dating someone new actually avoid making Valentine’s Day plans so they don’t seem too eager.
- And 71% of singles who are dating don’t want to go on dates around February 14th because it could feel awkward and cringey.
- More than half (54%) think it’s hard for daters to find the right balance between too much and not enough when it comes to Valentine’s Day.
- Some are just skipping presents for the holiday, as 43% say they’re not buying a gift for their new partner or date this year.
- While 49% believe Valentine’s Day gifts are “tacky,” 29% admit they’d feel disappointed if their partner didn’t plan anything for it.
- Of course, some presents are more appreciated than others, but what would be the worst thing to get for the holiday? More than half (55%) say an engagement ring, while 49% would be unhappy to unwrap some undies.
The survey also reveals the top things that can scare someone off in the early stages of a relationship:
- Picking out baby names
- Talking about moving in together before you’ve ever seen their home
- Saying “I love you” very early on
- Telling people you’re officially a couple when you’re still in the “just talking” stage
- Calling the other person your “soulmate”
- Asking the other person to meet their parents
- Leaving a toothbrush at their place after the second date
- Referring to their pet as “ours,” like when walking their dog
- Filling their social media with photos of the two of you together
- Making really elaborate, over-the-top Valentine’s Day plans
Source: NY Post